Journey to balance between family, income and inner strength.

Navigating the journey of life is like embarking on an uncharted adventure, filled with joyous highs and challenging lows. As an individual, I've experienced the unbalanced dance of juggling family, work, and personal aspirations. Days often felt like a whirlwind, leaving me yearning for a sense of equilibrium.

Who am I?

Greetings! I am Niesje, Dutch, 41 years old, and proud to be a freelancer, a mother of an amazing daughter, and the wife of an incredible man. My husband is more than a blessing; he is my source of inspiration, a mentor who illuminates my path and breathes life into my dreams. His golden hands craft DIY projects and he has broadened my horizons with wisdom on electricity and gas cost savings.

Since August 2020, I have been active in providing analyses, advice, and IT leadership. I guide organizations on their digital transformation path. In April 2021, I added a new chapter to my professional journey by becoming an IT Manager at a wholesaler. My narrative is evolving, but my commitment to guiding organizations on their digital journey remains unwavering.

Why this blog?

Life has thrown me various challenges and transitions, especially since I decided to reduce my work hours from 40 hours as an employee/freelancer to 24 hours per week as a freelancer. This transformation prompted reflections on finding equilibrium between fulfilling professional obligations and cherishing precious moments with my loved ones. The realization that life encompasses more than just meeting obligations has inspired a thorough reconsideration of my lifestyle.

The decision to reduce my work hours was radical yet necessary. It opened the door to a realm of possibilities to spend more quality time with my daughter and pursue my own dreams. It was a leap into the unknown, but I felt it was the path to a more balanced life.

My challenges

1. Balancing work and family: The hustle of work hours, deadlines, and family responsibilities often led to a sense of imbalance.
2. Personal time and self-Care: The relentless demands of life left little room for personal time and self-care.
3. Financial stability: Striving for financial stability while reducing work hours and seeking ways to diversify income sources.

The Catalyst for Change

It was this imbalance that became the catalyst for change. The desire to be fully present for my family while still nurturing my own dreams sparked a transformation. The realization dawned that achieving a balanced life was not only achievable but crucial for my well-being and the well-being of my loved ones.

The journey towards balance started with a commitment to well-being. Prioritizing self-care, both physically and mentally, became the foundation. By taking small, intentional steps, I began to cultivate a healthier, more resilient version of myself.

Redefining priorities

In seeking balance, it was crucial to redefine my priorities. This involved setting realistic expectations, learning to say no, and recognizing that every 'yes' to one thing often meant saying 'no' to another. This shift in perspective helped me focus on what truly mattered.

Embracing flexibility

Understanding that balance is a dynamic state rather than a fixed destination allowed me to adapt to life’s unexpected challenges. Embracing flexibility meant being open to change and adjusting my plans as needed, ensuring I could maintain a sense of equilibrium even when life didn’t go as planned.

Building a support system

Creating a strong support system was invaluable. Connecting with others, sharing experiences, and seeking guidance helped me navigate the complexities of balancing different aspects of life. This network provided emotional support and practical advice, making the journey towards balance more manageable and enriching.

By incorporating these insights and consistently applying them, I have been able to make meaningful progress towards achieving a balanced and fulfilling life.

Financial independence and well-being

As I continued on this path, I discovered that financial independence played a crucial role in achieving a balanced life. Generating my own income not only provided a sense of security but also contributed significantly to my overall well-being. The empowerment that came with financial self-sufficiency fostered a deep sense of accomplishment and freedom. It allowed me to invest in my passions, support my family, and set a positive example for my daughter. The pursuit of financial goals became intertwined with the pursuit of balance, showing that personal and financial growth can coexist harmoniously.

A call to others

This blog is an invitation to everyone. A space where we can share stories, exchange insights, and support one another in the pursuit of balance. Together, let's explore the possibilities of a harmonious and fulfilling life, embracing the beautiful imperfections that make each individual's journey truly unique. Welcome to a community where balance is not just a destination; it's an ongoing, shared expedition.

What to Expect

1. Personal stories: My experiences, challenges, and triumphs in balancing life, work, and personal goals.
2. Practical tips: Strategies for managing time, finances, and self-care effectively.
3. Inspiration: Encouragement and motivation for those seeking to create a balanced and fulfilling lifestyle.
4. Financial insights: Insights into achieving financial independence, including passive income strategies, investments, and cost-cutting measures.
5. Community support: A platform to connect with others, share experiences, and support each other in the journey towards balance.

Upcoming posts subject

• The Maslow theory applied to binancial balance: Understanding how Maslow's hierarchy can guide financial planning.
• Balancing time and finances as a working individual: Practical steps to harmonize work and personal life.
• Building a strong financial foundation: Essential steps for establishing financial security.
• Achieving financial independence: Strategies for generating passive income and making smart investments.
• Maintaining balance and well-Being: Tips for self-care and stress management.

Stay tuned for more insights and join me on this journey to financial freedom and balanced living. Let's reset together and embrace a life where finances, time, and well-being are harmoniously aligned. Check out my blog and Instagram for more updates, and let's embark on this transformative journey together!